Saturday, January 24, 2015

Why is Jesus Christ Important in my Life?








What think ye of Christ? ~Matthew 22:42 (This should be on the chalkboard, along with pictures or Christ)



What do we know about Christ?  What do YOU know about Christ?  Who is He?  How does he affect our daily lives?

While I was cleaning the kitchen and preparing this lesson simultaneously, I picked this month's Ensign up off the counter and went to put it away.  But then, I had this thought, "I wonder how much this particular Ensign mentions Christ?  Does it help us learn the answers to these questions (I mentioned above)?"  Needless to say I didn't put the magazine away.  Instead, I browsed through it, scanned a bit, and quickly came up with 25 different paragraphs mentioning things about who He is, what He does, and why He does it.  This was the result of a seriously brief read through.  Imagine how much more there is that I missed!?!  Something tells me EVERY issue is like this one too.  Maybe I should check last months...or you can! :)
I've marked all the parts of the February Ensign that I found regarding the Savior.  Let's read some of them and have you guys tell me what we learn from the brief, yet poignant sentences authored by both apostles and typical saints like you and me.

Here are some of the things I picked out from all of that (what I found in the Ensign):

-He teaches us to truly love and be loved
-He loves us perfectly
-He is THE perfect example for us to follow, shows us how to pattern our life 
-He "bids us enter", invites all to come unto Him
-He understands completely
-He gave us the Atonement; allows us to be truly clean/without sin as He is
-He will never leave us alone, he is constantly helping us
-He carries our "weight" with us
-He helps us and provides ways for us to keep the commandments
-He is our Savior and Redeemer
-He gives us power, strength, and comfort
-He is the great teacher
-We learn charity through Him
-He taught us that we can control our thoughts
-He restores our joy and helps our joy increase
-He taught us to be baptized
-He comforts and assures us
-He blesses our efforts
-He care about what we care about
-He overcame death
-He seeks after the lost lamb
-He blesses even ordinary people like us

If we look at "The Living Christ" we'll find more (and some of the same):
-His life is matchless
-His virtue is infinite
-None other has had so profound an influence upon all who have lived and will yet live upon the earth
-He was the Great Jehovah of the Old Testament, the Messiah of the New.
-He was the creator of the earth
-He was baptized to fulfill all righteousness
-He went about doing good but was despised for it
-His gospel was a message of peace and goodwill
-He entreated all to follow his example
-He healed the sick, caused the blind to see and raised the dead
-He taught the truth of eternity, the reality of our premortal existence, the purpose of our life on earth, and he potential for the sons and daughters of God in the life to come.
-He instituted the sacrament as a reminder of His great atoning sacrifice.
-He was arrested and condemned on spurious charges, convicted to satisfy a mob, and sentenced to die on Calvary’s cross.
-He gave His life to atone for the sins of all mankind. His was a great vicarious gift in
behalf of all who would ever live upon the earth.
-His life neither began in Bethlehem nor concluded in Calvary
- He was the Firstborn of the Father, the Only
Begotten Son in the flesh, the Redeemer of the world.
-He rose from the grave to “become the first fruits of them
that slept” (1 Corinthians 15:20)
- As Risen Lord, He visited among those He had loved in life. He also ministered among His “other sheep” (John 10:16) in ancient America.
-In the modern world, He and His Father appeared to the boy Joseph Smith, ushering in the long-promised “dispensation of the fullness of times” (Ephesians 1:10).
-the Prophet Joseph wrote: “His eyes were as a flame of fire; the hair of his head was white
like the pure snow; his countenance shone above the brightness of the sun; and his voice was as the sound of the rushing of great waters, even the voice of Jehovah
- he lives!
-he is the Only Begotten of the Father—
“That by him, and through him, and of him, the worlds are and were created, and the inhabitants thereof are begotten sons and daughters unto God” (D&C 76:22–24).
-His priesthood and His Church have been restored upon the earth—
“built upon the foundation of . . . apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief corner stone” (Ephesians 2:20).
-He will someday return to earth. “And
the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall
see it together” (Isaiah 40:5).
-He will rule as King of Kings and reign as Lord of Lords, and every knee shall bend and every tongue shall speak in worship before Him. Each of us will stand to be judged of Him according to our works and the desires of our hearts.
- Jesus is the Living Christ, the immortal Son of God. He is the great King Immanuel, who stands today on the right hand of His Father.
-He is the light of the world
-He is the life of the world
-He is the hope of the world
-His way is the path that leads to happiness in this life and eternal life in the world to come
From Elder Oak's talk entitles "Teachings of Jesus" we learn of Him as:
-the Only Begotten son (John 3:16-17)
-the Creator (John 1:2-3)
-Lord God of Israel (3 Nephi 11: 10,14)
-the Life of the World (John 10:10, 3 Nephi 11:11)
-the Light of the World (John 8:12, 14:16)
-the Great Exemplar (John 10:27)
and see that he:
-was always doing the will of the Father (Luke 2:49, John 6:38, 5:19)
-gave the priesthood power and authority to his apostle (Matthew 10:1, 16:19)
-gave us the Holy Ghost to help guide us (John 14:26, 16:13)
-also gave us the commandments to help guide us (3 Nephi 11:29-30)
-culminated his mortal ministry with His Resurrection and His Atonement for the sins of the world (John 1:29, Matthew 20:28, 26:28)
"And so we understand that the Atonement of Jesus Christ gives us the opportunity to overcome the spiritual death that results from sin and, through making and keeping sacred covenants, to have the blessings of eternal life (live with God again)." ~Oaks


Again, these are just from one month's Ensign a document from the church and a single talk from Elder Oaks.  Imagine how much more there is in the scriptures!  If you only read one book in the Book of Mormon, read third Nephi.  If you really want to narrow it down, start in chapter 11.  That much, I know we can all do.  I'm doing it now with me soon to be eight year old.  But you know what we should also do?  Read the entire New Testament.  What do you say?  Shall we commit to doing that this year?  I know it will be worth the effort... times 1000!

Okay, let's focus on a couple things.  First, let's talk about Elder Bednar's talk entitled "Bear Up Their Burdens with Ease."  It's the one with the truck that gets stuck in the snow.  Remember that one?  Who can quickly recap that story?
(truck stuck, needed traction)

How cool is that phrase, "spiritual traction"!?!  For whatever reason, that resonates with me.  We KNOW life isn't a fairy tale.  It doesn't take long to figure that out.  I think it would even be accurate to say that we recognize that the trials the Lord allows us to endure make us better people...somehow.  But the second we start looking at it as "spiritual traction" it feels more like a intelligent, needed teaching tool and less like the school of hard knocks we all try to escape.

That being said, gaining spiritual traction is never easy.  It takes A LOT of work.  And faith.  Lots and lots of faith.  And hope.  Don't forget hope.  Many times we feel like the heavy weight lifter carrying impossible amount of weight all alone in hopes to win some contest on our own.  Guess what!?!  Weight lifting competitions are STUPID  (both metaphorically and realistically-or should I not say that. :/ )  That's not what the Lord wants for us.

"Take my yoke upon you, and learn of  me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: an ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." ~Matthew 11:28-30

What do you know about yokes?  Do you know what they look like?  Do you know how and why they are used?  Tell me what you think the Savior is teaching us hear.
-"In essence, the Savior is beckoning us to rely upon and pull together with Him, even though our best efforts are not equal to and cannot be compared with His.  As we trust in and pull our load with Him during the journey of mortality, truly His yoke is easy and His burden is light.  We are not and never need to be alone. We can press forward in our daily lives with heavenly help.  Through the Saviors Atonement we can receive capacity and "strength beyond our] own"".  Bednar

Does this mean that the Lord removes our burdens completely?
Absolutely not.

Mosiah 24: 13-15

13 
And it came to pass that the voice of the Lord came to them in their afflictions, saying: Lift up your heads and be of good comfort, for I know of the covenant which ye have made unto me; and I will covenant with my people and deliver them out of bondage.
14 And I will also ease the burdens which are put upon your shoulders, that even you cannot feel them upon your backs, even while you are in bondage; and this will I do that ye may stand aswitnesses for me hereafter, and that ye may know of a surety that I, the Lord God, do visit my people in their afflictions.
15 And now it came to pass that the burdens which were laid upon Alma and his brethren were made light; yea, the Lord didstrengthen them that they could bear up their burdens with ease, and they did submit cheerfully and with patience to all the will of the Lord.

The challenges and difficulties were not immediately removed from the people. But Alma and his followers were strengthened, and their increased capacity made the burdens lighter. These good people were empowered through the Atonement to act as agents (see D&C 58:26–29) and impact their circumstances. And “in the strength of the Lord” (Words of Mormon 1:14Mosiah 9:1710:10Alma 20:4), Alma and his people were directed to safety in the land of Zarahemla. Bednar

The Savior succors his people.  Do you know what succor means?  I kind of did, but I couldn't confidently tell you a definitely.  So I Googled it. This is what I found:
1. Assistance and support in times of hardship and distress
2 Give assistance or aid too. 

And he will take upon him death, that he may loose the bands of death which bind his people; and he will take upon him their infirmities, that his bowels may be filled with mercy, according to the flesh, that he may know according to the flesh how to succor his people according to their infirmities” (Alma 7:11–12).

Everything is personal with Christ.  He cares about what we care about.  He KNOWS what we are going through and what we need.  He's been there himself!  Through His infinite atonement He has experienced everything He needed to in order to truly succor his people.

"Thus, the Savior has suffered not just for our sins and iniquities—but also for our physical pains and anguish, our weaknesses and shortcomings, our fears and frustrations, our disappointments and discouragement, our regrets and remorse, our despair and desperation, the injustices and inequities we experience, and the emotional distresses that beset us."  Bednar

There is no physical pain, no spiritual wound, no anguish of soul or heartache, no infirmity or weakness you or I ever confront in mortality that the Savior did not experience first. In a moment of weakness we may cry out, “No one knows what it is like. No one understands.” But the Son of God perfectly knows and understands, for He has felt and borne our individual burdens. And because of His infinite and eternal sacrifice (seeAlma 34:14), He has perfect empathy and can extend to us His arm of mercy. He can reach out, touch, succor, heal, and strengthen us to be more than we could ever be and help us to do that which we could never do relying only upon our own power. Indeed, His yoke is easy and His burden is light. ~ Bednar

I invite you to study, pray, ponder, and strive to learn more about the Savior’s Atonement as you assess your individual load. Many things about the Atonement we simply cannot comprehend with our mortal minds. But many aspects of the Atonement we can and need to understand.~Bednar


Not only does the Atonement of Jesus Christ overcome the effects of the Fall of Adam and make possible the remission of our individual sins and transgressions, but His Atonement also enables us to do good and become better in ways that stretch far beyond our mortal capacities. Most of us know that when we do things wrong and need help to overcome the effects of sin in our lives, the Savior has made it possible for us to become clean through His redeeming power. But do we also understand that the Atonement is for faithful men and women who are obedient, worthy, and conscientious and who are striving to become better and serve more faithfully? I wonder if we fail to fully acknowledge this strengthening aspect of the Atonement in our lives and mistakenly believe we must carry our load all alone—through sheer grit, willpower, and discipline and with our obviously limited capacities.
-Bednar

To which Jesus responded (and here again I acknowledge my nonscriptural elaboration), perhaps saying something like: “Then Peter, why are you here? Why are we back on this same shore, by these same nets, having this same conversation? Wasn’t it obvious then and isn’t it obvious now that if I want fish, I can get fish? What I need, Peter, are disciples—and I need them forever. I need someone to feed my sheep and save my lambs. I need someone to preach my gospel and defend my faith. I need someone who loves me, truly, truly loves me, and loves what our Father in Heaven has commissioned me to do. Ours is not a feeble message. It is not a fleeting task. It is not hapless; it is not hopeless; it is not to be consigned to the ash heap of history. It is the work of Almighty God, and it is to change the world. So, Peter, for the second and presumably the last time, I am asking you to leave all this and to go teach and testify, labor and serve loyally until the day in which they will do to you exactly what they did to me.”-Holland

Saturday, January 10, 2015

"Who am I, and Who can I become?"

(On the board, I'll write "origin", "purpose" and "destiny"

Every week we stand and say our theme:


Young Women Theme pink flower

WE ARE DAUGHTERS of our Heavenly Father, who loves us, and we love Him. WE WILL “STAND as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places” (Mosiah 18:9) as we strive to live the Young Women values, which are:
Faith • Divine Nature • Individual Worth • Knowledge • Choice and Accountability • Good Works • Integrity • and Virtue
WE BELIEVE as we come to accept and act upon these values, WE WILL BE PREPARED to strengthen home and family, make and keep sacred covenants, receive the ordinances of the temple, and enjoy the blessings of exaltation.
And if you look at the first page of your Personal Progress book, you'll find these words: "You are a beloved daughter of Heavenly Father, prepared to come to the earth at this particular time for a sacred and glorious purpose."

Think about these words.  Pick them apart.  What are your thoughts?  When you read that you are DAUGHTERS OF OUR HEAVENLY FATHER and that he loves you, what does that mean to you? Can you glean a little from these words what our purpose is?  How about our destiny?  What does Divine Nature mean? How do you feel about our Father in Heaven after reading these statements?

Our origin (as daughters of a king):
Sisters, those words are true (from your personal progress book)! They are not made up in a fairy tale! Isn’t it remarkable to know that our eternal Heavenly Father knows you, hears you, watches over you, and loves you with an infinite love? In fact, His love for you is so great that He has granted you this earthly life as a precious gift of “once upon a time,” complete with your own true story of adventure, trial, and opportunities for greatness, nobility, courage, and love. And, most glorious of all, He offers you a gift beyond price and comprehension. Heavenly Father offers to you the greatest gift of all—eternal life—and the opportunity and infinite blessing of your own “happily ever after.”-Uchtdorf

"You are truly royal spirit daughters of Almighty God.  You are princesses, destined to become queens. Your own wondrous story has already begun.  Your "once upon a time" is now"-Uchtdorf
Let's read:
Genesis 1:26–27  26 ¶And God said, Let us make man in our image, after ourlikeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.
 27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
Moses 1:39  For behold, this is my work and my glory—to bring to pass theimmortality and eternal life of man.

From those two scriptures, what do we learn?  
-We are not only daughters or God, but we are created in his image!  We are not creatures that randomly morphed to look how we do.  We LOOK like our father.  Just like my girls look like their dad, we look like our Father in Heaven.
-God's entire purpose; His goal and His desire, is to have His children return to Him!  He gave us our bodies (which we, as women, get to help with-We GET to HELP our Father in Heaven!  The thing that God wants MOST is something we not only have the privilege of being a part, but we're a critical part of the equation.  Think about that for a while.), our agency, the Plan of Salvation, etc. all to help US come home; to give us our "happily ever after"!  He gave us our "once upon a time" and so badly wants us to choose our "happily ever after"!  Unlike Cinderella, there is not one lone author creating the plot twist and writing the ending.  There's God, and there's us.  Together, we decide if it's a "happily ever after" or not.

(We are DAUGHTERS of GOD)
"It is good to remember that you are always a child of God. This knowledge will carry you through the most difficult times in your life and will inspire you to accomplish remarkable things. However, it is also important to remember that being a daughter of eternal parents is not a distinction you earned or you will ever lose. You will always and forever remain a daughter of God." Uchtdorf (Living the Gospel Joyful")

"You are loved.  You are dear to your heavenly parents.  The infinite and eternal Creator of light and life knows you! He is mindful of you.  Yes, God loves you this very day and always.
He is not waiting to love you until you have overcome your weaknesses and bad habits. He loves you today with a full understanding of your struggles. He is aware that you reach up to Him in heartfelt and hopeful prayer. He knows of the times you have held onto the fading light and believed—even in the midst of growing darkness. He knows of your sufferings. He knows of your remorse for the times you have fallen short or failed. And still He loves you.
And God knows of your successes; though they may seem small to you, He acknowledges and cherishes each one of them. He loves you for extending yourself to others. He loves you for reaching out and helping others bear their heavy burdens—even when you are struggling with your own.
He knows everything about you. He sees you clearly—He knows you as you really are. And He loves you—today and always!"~Uchtdorf
Cinderella
-Noble birth
Did that mean that she automatically got to be a princess/queen? (No, it simply made her eligible)
Did her nobility prevent her from having to endure hardship? (Not at all...Dad died, horrible step-mother and sisters, worked to the bone etc.)
Now, since this is a fairy tale, our comparison is imperfect.  Like Cinderella, we are of a noble birthright.  We are daughters of a king; children of our Heavenly Father.  We are princesses and are destined to become Queens. We are also not simply thrust upon a throne.
We must earn it.  UNLIKE Cinderella, we do not have a fairy godmother.  WE DO, however, have a Savior.  We the ability to repent.  And instead of magic, we have His grace.  If we act in accordance to the will of our Father, we WILL have a "happily ever after," eternally living in His presence.  We WILL be given the opportunity (whether in this life or the next) to have our own "Prince Charming" as well as an eternal family.

As daughters of God, we have inherent gifts specifically bestowed upon us from our father.  What might those gifts be?
Gifts given to women (These are but a few and I pulled these from Elder Christofferson's talk):
-Virtue
-Able to instill faith, courage, empathy and refinement in relationships and in cultures
-Moral authority
-A mother can exert an influence unequaled by any other person in any other relationship
-Sacred role in the creation of life
-An intention to do good and be good

Our purpose
-"God sent you here to prepare for a future greater than anything you can imagine." ~Uchtdorf
-"...you must humble yourself, exercise faith, take upon you the name of Christ, seek Him in word and deed, and resolutely "stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places.""-Uchtdorf
-Help our Heavenly Father with His work and His glory by giving his children bodies
-Raise spirits in righteousness
-Set an example
-Instill qualities of faith, courage, empathy etc. in relationships and cultures
-To walk the path of discipleship for ourselves, and our families, so we can choose our "happily ever after" with our Father in Heaven.

What things should we do to stay on the path to our "happily ever after"?

Are there warnings/advice given by the apostles/prophets specifically for US?
Uchtdorf, Your Happily Ever After
-Stay true to what you know is right, stand for truth and righteousness
-Trust your Father in Heaven.  Trust him enough to follow His plan
-Attend church meetings, read the scriptures regularly, pray to our Heavenly Father daily
-Love your Heavenly Father with all your heart, might, and mind.
-Fill your souls with virtue
-Love goodness (do what is right for the love of doing what is right)
-Always strive to bring out the best in yourself and others.
-Learn to accept and act upon the YW values
-Live the standards in "For the Strength of Youth."
-Stand in holy places
-Be strong and of good courage
Living the Gospel Joyful
-Obedience to God's commandments, walk the path of discipleship
-Live the gospel joyfully, with all our heart, might, mind, and soul.
-Walk the path of discipleship
"Discipleship lifts our spirits and lightens our hearts. It inspires us with faith, hope, and charity. It fills our spirits with light in times of darkness, and serenity during times of sorrow."-Uchtdorf
The Moral Force of Women
-The devaluation of marriage and motherhood and homemaking "there is not a higher good than motherhood and fatherhood in marriage...no superior career, and no amount of money, authority, or public acclaim can exceed the ultimate rewards of family.  Whatever else a woman may accomplish, her moral influence is no more optimally employed that here." -Elder Christofferson
-Attitudes toward human sexuality
-Abortion for persona or social conveniences strikes at the heart of a woman's most sacred powers and destroys her moral authority
-Sexual immorality, revealing dress that debases women and reinforces the lie that a woman's sexuality is what defines her worth
-In the name of equality, society is trying to erase all the differences between the masculine and the feminine...encouraging women to adopt more masculine traits--be more aggressive, touch and confrontational

Former Young Women general president Margaret D. Nadauld taught: “The world has enough women who are tough; we need women who are tender. There are enough women who are coarse; we need women who are kind. There are enough women who are rude; we need women who are refined. We have enough women of fame and fortune; we need more women of faith. We have enough greed; we need more goodness. We have enough vanity; we need more virtue. We have enough popularity; we need more purity.”10 

Why do we, as do all the fairy tale princesses, have to experience opposition and hardship?

"...Sandwiched between their “once upon a time” and “happily ever after,” they all had to experience great adversity. Why must all experience sadness and tragedy? Why could we not simply live in bliss and peace, each day filled with wonder, joy, and love?
The scriptures tell us there must be opposition in all things, for without it we could not discern the sweet from the bitter. 2 Would the marathon runner feel the triumph of finishing the race had she not felt the pain of the hours of pushing against her limits? Would the pianist feel the joy of mastering an intricate sonata without the painstaking hours of practice?
In stories, as in life, adversity teaches us things we cannot learn otherwise. Adversity helps to develop a depth of character that comes in no other way. Our loving Heavenly Father has set us in a world filled with challenges and trials so that we, through opposition, can learn wisdom, become stronger, and experience joy."~Uchtdorf
"It is your reaction to adversity, not the adversity itself, that determines how your life's story will develop." -Uchtdorf
Is it enough simply to endure? Nope.  How we react to both adversity and temptation is a critical factor in our destiny
I know that our Heavenly Father has absolutely given us the tools we need not only to endure, but to endure well.  I know that as we we truly understand who we are, and have the desire for our "once upon a time" to end with an eternal "happily ever after", we CAN absolutely get there. We can claim our noble birth right to not only be princesses but QUEENS!  We can become the people we were sent here to become.

The Moral Force of Women, Elder D. Todd Christofferson
Living the Gospel Joyful, Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf
Your Happily Ever After, Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf